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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

14.06.2025 01:24

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

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I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

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My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

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I will be 64.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

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So whats the point in blame.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I have no regrets .

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

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I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

This is how, and why children get BPD.

What did i know ?

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She married twice! .

I was 9 years of age.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

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Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

I did it because my mum asked me too!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

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My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

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I don,t even have a pension.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

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My life is so biszare .

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Im still living with it.

I could never make a relationship work though!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Comes on , in middle age.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I never cut or harmed myself..

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Would this be the day?

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

And i lived it daily.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

We were not on the streets..

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

She found it foreign!.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Was to survive, this bastard.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Im dying but, im not bitter.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

All the time i was locked up.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

So, i spoilt her more .

Where the ultimate outsiders.

But ive been too sick for many years..

I waited trembling.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Especially a lifetime of it.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

But, we were locked up after school.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I was very sick at this time too.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

He knew the spot.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

She was in good health!

As i do to all so called friends.?

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

My family never makes their pension either.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Who then, do I blame.?

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I was seconnd youngest,

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She loved him until the end.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I said to her

Ive learnt so much.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

It was going to be , some day.

Put me off passion for life!!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I couldn’t, believe it.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

One cannot live in the past .

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I think the readers, may guess!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

When she asked me how she looked .

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

But it wasn’t much.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

This is soul school!.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I was scared of men, in general

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

He resisted the act ,that day.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

She wouldn,t have been !

On the 31st of Jan this month .

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

(And it was in our own minds.)

I write beautiful poetry .

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Why did i forgive my father ?

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..